Dear Men, We Love You

Its time someone told men how terrific, sexy, smart and wonderful they are. When I see an older man, I see the eyes of wisdom and experience. I see kindness and devotion to a family he created and loved and a man who has experienced life and held it gently in his strong hands. I know he could crush another human but he tenderly holds the hands of his grandchildren and he carries the burdens men bear on their strong shoulders. I see a man who loves a woman or longs to, a strong and worthy man.

When I see a younger man I see the eyes of potential for the life ahead. A young man full of excitement and vitality in his step, ready to chase the good times with friends and family. Ready to forge a life, love a wife, start a family, buy a home and have a career providing for those he loves.

I don't know when the feminist movement started affecting the way men see themselves, but I think it's high time someone let men know they are loved and admired - for being strong - for being masculine - for being fathers, husbands, brothers and sons. For leading us, shielding us, providing for us and for everything you do.

Ever since Hillary Clinton ran for president (both times) everyone talks about women breaking the glass ceiling. That ceiling was broken long ago. The world over women have been in the highest ranking positions. Hillary running for president of the United States wasn't achieving anything that would have bought her an ounce of respect. Power yes, respect no. The real ceiling women break are the ones being mothers, wives, sisters, partners, homemakers and doing it really well. Yes, a successful career outside the home is rewarding, and more often than not in modern times a necessity to support a household. But is there any greater compliment to a woman than when her children are grown and become capable, happy, well adjusted contributing adults? A mothers heart swells with pride when her children are admired for being good people, respected contributing citizens starting their own careers and families. The hardest job any mother will ever have is raising her children. Breaking that glass ceiling is a feeling that can not be bought or compared to any other achievement. Not all women choose marriage or families and that's of course fine too. That's the wonderful thing about today's world, there is no such thing anymore as a "spinster". Women can choose their path and be proud.

This week the New York Times newspaper hired a disgusting foul mouthed female to their editorial board who spews hatred of men and especially white men. Writer Kurt Schlichter rightly titled her "Ku Klux Korean". Reading her comments has made me say enough is enough.

I'm here to tell all you white men how very sexy and strong and admired you are. I'm here to tell men of every race the same thing - you are admired, loved and needed. Women love you, women need you and women admire you.

Feminists are liars as a whole. Where are those "feminists" when they see women abused in the world of Islam? They say nothing. They know little girls are sold into marriage and they say nothing. Where were 'feminists' all these years women were assaulted and raped by men in power and enabled by the women keeping the men in power?

Women need men and men need women, it's the natural design of creation. In the truest sense they need each other exclusively to cherish each other and build a life together, and create a family to carry on God's design for humans to procreate and populate the earth.

Not all relationships have children, but love and devotion are the hallmark of all meaningful relationships.

Yes women can have children with no man in the home but look at the result of that in our world today. So many sad and despairing children wondering who cares about them, lost without the love and guidance of both their parents. Disadvantaged in life by emotional insecurities.

Things go wrong. Families break up. Men lose hope, women lose hope. Men abandon their children, women do as well. In today's world lines are blurred on who is responsible for what at home, work and in society. There are many ills in society that have created a sense of loss of purpose and confusion in both men and women.

But it's very important that men celebrate their strengths and know they are much admired for it. I want every single, older, white, black, man to know the ladies are checking you out. You're still hot, you're still sexy, you're the promise of love found again. You're the strong arms she wants and needs to hold her. She's the soft place for you to fall at the end of the day.

Men of the world - do not let feminists or the new millennial sexless genderism rob you of your identity. I promise you that your strength is perfect. Your maleness is divine. Your strong body and smart mind is your gift from God. Let it shine, we ladies love you.